
There are very few photos which sum up a lifetime.
Although they say a picture is worth a thousand words, a relationship is so complex, composed of so many little pieces that it is difficult for one picture to capture its essence. The picture on this page is of my dog Diablo and me.
For me, this photo really shows the essence of our connection. I am clearly happy in this picture. My dog is close, he’s licking my face, and yet, I’m distracted by my obligation to look at the photographer. But look at Diablo. He is focused on only one thing...me. He is not distracted by the photographer. He feels no obligation to attend anything in this moment other than me.
That was one beautiful dog.
Diablo was not the smartest dog I have ever owned, nor was he the least intelligent. However, he was among the most devoted, the most “good” and one of the closest to my heart. During our time together, he unexpectedly saved my life. Then I saved his. The only thing harder than letting him go would have been not letting him go when it was time.
Diablo taught me a lot about what is important in life. He never met a person who was not his friend. His basic assumption was that all people and all dogs are friends unless and until they prove themselves otherwise. He was rarely disappointed.
I only hope I can be as good as him, to always see the best in people, to always find some pleasure in any job I must do, just as Diablo enjoyed training, as though the process was far more important than the results.
Take a moment to enjoy your dog. I know that I’m looking at Tippy and Scooter in a new way, as dogs with whom I’m sharing this process called Life, realizing that we’re lucky to have one another even though we may occasionally have differences in terms of what we want from one another.
Memories last a lifetime. And as I’m learning, beautiful memories make for a beautiful life.
